Is it me?

I was told very young that there will be people in your life that will not like you for whatever reason or will be annoyed by things you do and there is nothing you can do about it.

Is there nothing I can do about it? If there are those that do not like me, or do not like the things I do, then do I change those things? What if those things cannot be changed?

I was thinking on this because I realize that I fall in love with people rather easily. Almost as if I am adopting people into my family. I cannot help it. It is hard because I do not always get that same love back. It is not required of the other person, but I think I have done something wrong and want to fix it. It used to get me in trouble because I would be like the "Runaway Bride" and not have my own opinion on things. I would want to please others, so I would agree with things and just go with what whoever said.

Now it is not as bad, but I still cannot help, but fall in love with people. I want others to not be annoyed by me and it makes me sad that I could have that affect on people. Why does it have to be this way?